Vehicle Wiring Products: http://www.vehicle-wiring-products.eu/VWP-onlinestore/terminalsnonins/mouldingterms.php Terminal extraction set, 20.52. That's what I have, but no doubt there are cheaper options to be found on eBay. On eBay someone is selling the same tool as VWP: http://cgi.ebay.co.uk/DURITE-TERMINAL-EXTRACTION-TOOL-SET-0-703-99_W0QQitemZ300394995798QQcmdZViewItemQQptZUK_Diagnostic_Tools_Equipment?hash=item45f0efe056
I used a harclip with the ends cut off and it worked perfectly!! It cost more than the paperclip I tried originally but was much better.
You need the Laser VAG 3932 terminal tool - everyone should have one of these in there tool set! http://www.bennetts.com/electrical-soldering/laser-tools-3932-2089419--683706.php
That one looks good seems to be the only generic one online I tried the hairclip but its a different plug on this loom
This just needs a small 'glasses' screwdriver to push the tab in - done the same in the last 2-3 weeks.
those durite terminal things are useless, dont work at all on any vag connectors. the laser one is the type you need. I bought a similar one off ebay but it wasnt quite right i had to bend the tips to make it work like so:
I can't get on with any terminal removal tools, they're all crap. The absolute BEST thing you can do for removing terminals is to get some of those metal inserts that go in wiper blades, cut them into decent sized lengths (4-5 inches) & grind down the ends. I've got 4 double ended for all types of plugs from those little d!ck hair holes on the mini terminals to massive holes on mk2 light connector. Cost's nothing & you can customize them to fit exactly!